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EVEN THE CHEATERS WANT A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP....(See how)

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A good friend doesn’t lie or withhold information, and the same goes for a partner in a lasting relationship. It takes a time to build trust, and it takes honesty to maintain it. A godly relationship cannot be maintained if a couple refuses to be open with one another about their goals, dreams, temptations and weaknesses. If you are accustomed to being honest with your friends, honesty will come much more easily in marriage.

Honesty certainly has levels. We should be discreet about what and when we share. But the heart of honesty is to maintain trust and keep peace. Two peace-seekers will naturally have a relationship that blossoms and grows, because God loves unity!

             
10 Truths to Keep Your Relationship Healthy

I think it's easy to make things more complicated than they need to be. Here are some basic rules of the relationship road that will keep you headed in the right direction
1.     Successful relationships take work. They don't happen in a vacuum. They occur when the couples in them take the risk of sharing what it is that's going on in their hearts and heads.
2.     You can only change yourself, not your partner. If you love someone and think that after a while he or she will alter behaviors you find uncomfortable, think again. If you want changes, put them on the table. so your partner knows what you need.
3.     All arguments stem from our own fear or pain. When upset occurs, check out what's going on inside of you rather than get angry with your partner. Truth is that we usually aren't upset for the reasons we think we are.
4.     Understand that men and women are very different. We're not from Mars or Venus; we're not even in the same solar system. Understanding and celebrating our differences will make living together more peaceful, interesting, and fun.
5.     Honor each other in some way every day. Every morning you have the opportunity to make your relationship sweeter and deeper by recommitting to your mate. Feeling respected and cherished by the one you love makes life much nicer.
6.     Anger is a waste of time. Anger is also a relationship killer, because it makes you self-absorbed and won't allow you to see the good. If you are annoyed with your mate, give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss what's going on for you.
7.     Get regular tune-ups. Go to a couples workshop, talk with a counselor, or read a relationship book together at least once a year. Even if you don't think you need it, you will pick up a couple of ideas, and the process alone will strengthen your connection.
8.     Find a way to become and stay best friends. For some this sounds unromantic, but for those who live it, most say it's the best part of their time together.
9.     Be responsible for your own happiness. No other person can make you happy. It's something you have to do on your own. If you feel it's your partner's fault, think again, and look within to find out what piece may be missing for you.
10.  Give what you want to get. Our needs change with time. If you'd like to feel understood, try being more understanding. If you want to feel more love, try giving more. It's a simple program that really works.
There are no guarantees, but couples who practice these techniques have longer and stronger relationships than those who are not proactive in their love.
Not every relationship begins with friendship, but there are many that do, and these reasons prove why God so often leads couples from friendship to marriage. The beautiful thing about friendship prior to dating is that marriage, in essence, is the commitment to love one friend above all others for the rest of your life. Whether or not you’re currently dating, the kind of friend you are equips you for future relationships—so live and love well right where God has you.
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